There are days that even before they start, you already know that they will be difficult, maybe because you felt it, or because you actually know you have something stressful planned. Other days instead, begin on the right foot, but at some point, without even realizing it, everything starts to go wrong and you find yourself on your way home thinking: ‘God what a shit day’. What I am about to tell you will not straighten what went wrong, nor will it take away any source of stress.I don’t know how, I don’t know why, but in a way it lifts me a little.
It is a very easy thing to do and it consists in keeping a secret for yourself .. I mainly have three types (in order of difficulty):
1 Little vice: the easiest and absolutely unbeatable.The first secret thought that I suggest is to foretaste the satisfaction of a little cuddle at the end of the day. From chocolate, to the corner of the city you prefer, from a nice hot bath reading a book, to a small self gift or a movie on the sofa with a cat and popcorn. Organize something you like for that same evening and everything will seem to slip away much more simply as you wait for your moment.
2 underwear: ok then, I’m a woman and that’s how it works for me, but I guess any type of garment can fit. For me, knowing that no one else knows, but I wear particularly sexy lingerie or that I like more than any other in my drawer, makes me feel extraordinarily powerful and consequently self esteemer ( if i can say it).
33 Tattoos (or piercings): I personally have both and I am particularly proud of the fact that I do not show off either of them. Indeed I always try to keep them hidden or covered as much as possible. On this you may not agree in many, but I believe that both of these practices reveal something private, they say something about us without the need for words. So it makes me stronger to know that there is something of mine that I can show only to whoever I want. It especially helps me when I meet new people even when I get intimate with someone for the first time. Of course I’m not advising you to go and scarify by the end of the day, but maybe re-evaluate some of your scars or wear some accessories that talk about your culture or your beliefs and keep it a little hidden under your clothes. Things like that, apparently insignificant, but they make sense if you show them.
I repeat I have not given you who knows what advice, but only those that for me are a happy thought and that help me to survive certain days.